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Saturday, January 19, 2013

17

I say this every time one of my kids has a birthday...how can it be that they're already another year older?!  It's so cliche, but so true! 

Kylie can't possibly be 17.  She was 7 only a few days ago!   

See?  She looks almost the same!  

On her 7th birthday, we took her to Red Robin for dinner.  She got to invite one friend and she chose her best buddy, Nathan Oliver (who just moved back to Bainbridge a few weeks ago...I need to get them back to Red Robin for an updated picture, don't you think??).


This year she had a party with her friends and another with the family.  That seems to be how we celebrate these days. I didn't get any pictures of her with her friends.  She didn't really want me around.  Sigh.

Even Nate got to come to the family party. We Skyped him in from Idaho.  The little ones were fascinated to see Nate on the computer!

I think Caleb remembers him!

Happy Birthday, Kylie!  I hope the next 10 years don't go as quickly as the past 10 have!


A Room of Her Own

Now that Nathan is gone, we've moved Jillian into his old room.  She finally has a room of her own! No more sharing with Ben!  It's about time! After moving all the furniture in, which happened the day Nathan left, the next step was figuring out what color to paint the walls.  We headed up to Home Depot and picked out three different shades of pink.  She picked the lightest one, which was also my favorite.  Next comes the fun part:  painting!  




I think it's going to take a few more coats...

Friday, January 4, 2013

He's Gone!

Look at how happy he is to be leaving!  I can't believe how fast the past 19 years have gone. It's so cliche, but it's so true!  I must say that about a year ago, maybe even two years ago, I was more than ready for him to go.  But over the past six months or so, Nathan has matured a lot.  He's become fun to be around again, it's interesting and invigorating to have a conversation with him, and he's generally pretty cooperative.  We made it through the rough late-teen years with only a few scrapes and bruises to our emotional well-being. And now that he's such a nice guy, he's leaving!  Harsh!

He's so anxious to leave that he had the door open before I could take his picture! Here he is with all the stuff he'll be taking with him.  It doesn't seem like very much to me, but he seems to think it's more than enough.

He and his friend Mackenzie are driving out to Rexburg together.  I was very nervous about this plan, especially since I just recently made the drive with Nate and I know how scary the road are even when there's no bad weather.  It seemed like driving in the beginning of January would definitely mean snow and ice. I prayed for days that they would have good weather, and Mackenzie's mom must have been praying hard, too, because January 3 was a beautiful day.  Clear blues skies and a high ridge of pressure for the next 24 hours (which means clear, calm weather and no precipitation) over all of the northwestern US: Washington, Oregon and Idaho, the three states they would be passing through.  Truly an answer to prayers!  

Nate was supposed to be at Mackenzie's house at 6:45 on Thursday morning.  Jillian and Ben really wanted to come say goodbye, even though it meant waking up extra early on a non-school day.  Aren't they loving siblings?  Well, yes they are, but I think the real reason was because they're both so excited for him to leave so they can each have their own room.  Jillian is taking over Nate's room and Ben will have the room he and Jillian used to share.  We got to Mackenzie's house and all her siblings were still asleep.  Feel the love, Nate!

Here they are, all ready to go!  Don't they make a cute couple?  "No, Mom!" Nate says. "We're just friends!"  Well, that's how the best relationships always start, right?  Anyway, they managed to get all their stuff into Mackenzie's car the night before, so all that was left was for us to take a few pictures, give some hugs, cry a little, and say goodbye. I actually didn't cry that much.  I did before we left our house when Brad gave Nate a blessing and as we were driving to Mackenzie's, but by the time we got there, I had gotten myself under control. Nate's enthusiasm made it hard to be sad.  I'm really excited for this next stage in his life.  He's an amazing young man and I can't wait to see where life takes him!

They left the house at 6:55, planning to catch the 7:50 ferry. More blessings were poured out on them and they were one of the last cars on the 7:05.  They made it there in 13 hours, with no incidents.  Nate said there were high winds through the Blues, but the road were clear and dry the whole way.


Friday, December 28, 2012

Snowshoeing and Sledding in the Olympics

A few days after Christmas, we decided to head up to the Olympics and play in the snow.  We went to the great sledding spot we found last year when we cut our tree, which didn't have any snow a month ago and now has LOTS! It was a little hard to get there, even with our 4x4 truck.  

 Our first stop was for snowshoeing.  We parked the truck, strapped on the snowshoes and started hiking.  

The snow was beautiful, powdery and soft enough to lay in!


Brad and Ben climbed up this hill and rolled huge snowballs down.  We made a snowman, but I didn't get a picture.

We hiked and played in the snow for about 45 minutes, then decided to head back down.

When we reached the sledding hill, the snow was deep enough that it scraped the bottom of the doors when we opened them and there was no way to turn the truck around.  The truck got stuck when Brad tried to get off the main track, so he worked on digging out the tires while Kylie, Ben and I sledded.  

 Check out that pristine snow!

Ben hiking up to the top.

It was a steep, long run!  

Brad got the truck dug out and had to back up the road to a better place for turning around.  While he was gone, he encountered a guy who was really stuck.  His truck was off the road in the ditch.  When we finished sledding, we went back to help him. Another truck came along and with our combined truck power, we were able to get him out. (All three were Toyota 4x4s...we could have made a Toyota commercial!) Heading back down was even more treacherous than going up, but we made it safely!

Tuesday, December 25, 2012

Christmas Day


By Christmas, our tree had been up for over a month and was getting pretty droopy.  But the Christmas Spirit was still the same!  The kids woke up about 7:00 to open their stockings  and didn't wake up Brad and I until 8:00. (It gets later every year!)

We said we were going to have a "small" Christmas this year, but it seemed like there were just as many, if not more, presents!

Nate made Ben a cool wooden sword. 


Kylie's favorite gift was a North Face raincoat.  It was the only thing she really wanted this year.

We gave our Cake Boss some cake decorating tools. Oh yeah!

As a gag-gift (kind of...), I gave Brad a portable camping toilet. 

Nate got lots of things he needs for school, including these warm boots.

Ben's big gift was an X-Box, since Nate is taking his to college.

No pictures of me, sorry!  Brad gave me a new blender, since I love to make smoothies.  The one we had, we'd gotten for our wedding almost 20 years ago and it wasn't exactly blending anymore.  After opening presents, we had a delicious breakfast of German pancakes and then everyone relaxed or played with their new toys.

Later in the day, we went over to my mom's for Christmas dinner with my sisters and their families.  I forgot to take a group picture, but we were all there!  

Monday, December 24, 2012

Christmas Eve

Another fun year of "Chinese Christmas" at Grandma Vikki's:
 
 
Chillin' with the babies before the big game.

Brandon and Nolan are going to earn money in the Circus to pay for medical school.  Brandon starts school in the Grand Caymans in January, so we won't see them for a few years. I don't think his Circus gig will last very long, with the way Nolan is growing!
 
The anticipation!

We had a good sized group this year...33 people!  Roya brought her fiance and his daughter, the princess.

The newlyweds, Zach and Emily were there for the beginning of the game, but they had to leave early.  (Emily is hiding behind Jonathan.) We think they showed up just to help Jonathan's family cheat...when they left, they gave their numbers to Kalyn and Alexis, with the "promise" that the girls would give them the gifts they chose with their numbers.  We retaliated by sending Nate over to spy on them.

Our friends, the Hansens, were there, too.  Kate was thrilled with the gift she opened...an arm rest organizer and some popcorn!  Mariann gave me the gift that she would have brought if she hadn't moved to Texas and insisted I bring to to the party. I kept it in my closet for four months, waiting for the big reveal. Kate was only a little bit sad when Alicia stole it from her.

Tattoo sleeves were one of the more popular "stealers" this year...
  
They made the rounds...
 
at least among the Van Akens.
 
 After the party, we lit off one of the sky lanterns that was another of the "stealers."
 
 They're really beautiful to watch, but it was a little scary when it almost got caught in a tree!
 Fortunately, it made it over and we watched until it was no bigger than a star, glittering in the night sky. 

Thursday, December 20, 2012

The best way to spread Christmas cheer is singing loud for all to hear!

Our ward Christmas party this year was an Elf Training for the Primary kids put on by the Young Men and Young Women.  They did a fabulous job! 
Even Ben, who is way too quickly losing his childhood innocence, enjoyed it.

Our YM president was perfect as the head elf.  I think he's found a new calling in life! He welcomed the kids and explained the evening.  They each received a "passport" and were guided to the different training locations.

Each room was decorated and had an activity related to Elf training, such as Christmas Bingo, which Kylie was in charge of.

And cookie decorating with Jingle Bells Jillian.

More of the cookie crew:  Aubrey, Shirley, and Jillian.  
They also learned about snowman building (marshmallow snowmen), Christmas tree decorating (construction paper trees), snow ball throwing (wiffle balls thrown through a snowman cut-out), Elf games,  and made Elf ID cards.

Isn't his costume great?! 

While the kids were being tutored in the fine arts of Elf-craft, the adults enjoyed hors d'ouevres  and socializing.  

What Elf Training is complete without a visit to the biggest elf of them all?  I love the look on Ben's face,"I'm on to you, big guy!"  He said he was going to ask Santa his middle name so he could figure out who he really was, but once Santa said, "Hi, Ben!" he knew right away.

The hardworking Elf trainers got a chance to eat and visit, too.

Three of the cutest elves!  

Saturday, December 15, 2012

Christmas Wreath

I've been wanting to make my own Christmas wreath for several years now.  A friend and I used to get together to make them, but she moved away about eight years ago.  This year, I was determined not to buy another Costco wreath!  I recruited Ben to help and set up shop in the garage.  First, we had to build a wreath form.  In the past, I've always borrowed one, but they are easy to make, I had the supplies on hand, and I knew Ben would love hammering in all the nails!  

In case you want to make one of your own, here's how:

First, get a square piece of plywood about 22" to 24" square (22" is probably the smallest for an 18" wreath).
Then find the middle of the square and mark it with a pencil.  Make yourself a handy "pencil compass" with a 9" piece of string tied to a pencil.  Have your helper hold the end of the string on the center of the board and draw an 18" circle.
Third, get about a dozen long, sturdy nails (about 4" long, I used 14), and have your helper hammer them around the perimeter of the circle at even intervals (think a clock).
And voila!  You've got your wreath form.


To make a wreath, first you have to collect all the supplies.  Fortunately, I am surrounded by cedar and fir trees, and lots of other great, wild-growing, wreath making plants like holly, evergreen huckleberry, salal, and Oregon grape, and I have other evergreens growing in my gardens.  Anything with evergreen leaves makes great wreaths, but I like cedar and fir boughs for the base. Try to find long, supple, thinner branches, around the size of your thumb at the cutting point.  Anything much bigger is harder to work with. You'll need eight to ten boughs for a nice, full, wreath. Collect lots of "decorations," too. The more variety you can find, the better.  I even had some hydrangeas still on my bushes that were perfectly dried, so I snipped them off and added them to my collection.  You'll also need some wire to tie everything together. If your boughs are thicker, you'll need thicker wire, but I was able to get away with using thin, green florist wire.

Putting the wreath together:  Take a bough and wrap it around on the INSIDE of the nails. The nails are there to hold the wreath's form until you wire it all together.  Tuck all the stray branches in so not much is poking out along the outside of the nails.  Your second bough should start in a different spot than your first, but wrap in the same direction.  All boughs need to wrap in the same direction.  Once you've got your boughs wrapped in as full as you'd like, take your wire and secure the boughs together, wrapping the wire under the wreath and tying the wire around all the boughs to keep them together.  Do this in about six different spots around the wreath.  

Then you get to start decorating!  Poke in your various evergreen beauties wherever you'd like around the wreath and wire them in if they feel like they're not going to stay on their own.  I used extra wire on my hydrangeas since they're not as sturdy.  To make a hanger, find the "top" of your wreath and if there's not already a wrap of wire at that spot, add one, then make a  loop of wire (I used four strands of the florist's wire to make sure it was sturdy) and secure it to the wire that's wrapped around the wreath.  

Ben starting to decorate with some holly.

Jillian came out and gave us some decorating advice.

The finished product!  I was very pleased with how it turned out. I especially love the hydrangeas!

Here it is hanging on my front door.  Much prettier than any Costco wreath!